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Working with a Sports Psychologist: What Athletes Should Know

You train your body with coaches. You develop skills through practice. But when it comes to your mind—the tool that ultimately determines how you perform under pressure—many athletes have never worked with a professional.

Sports psychologists specialize in the mental side of athletics. Understanding what they do, how to find one, and how to maximize the relationship can accelerate your development significantly. Here's what every athlete should know.

What Sports Psychologists Do

Performance Enhancement

Core mental skills work:

Focus training: Developing attention control for competition

Arousal regulation: Managing energy levels for optimal performance

Confidence building: Strengthening self-belief and resilience

Visualization: Mental rehearsal techniques

Routine development: Pre-competition and within-competition routines

Pressure management: Performing under stress

This is the skill-building side—training mental capacities like you train physical ones.

Clinical Issues

When athletes face mental health challenges:

Anxiety and depression: Clinical-level issues affecting life and sport

Eating disorders: Particularly relevant in weight-class and aesthetic sports

Substance issues: Performance and recreational substances

Trauma processing: Including injury-related psychological damage

Identity concerns: Life transitions, career endings, identity crises

This is the clinical side—treating psychological issues that impair wellbeing.

The Distinction

Performance enhancement specialists (mental performance consultants, mental skills coaches) focus on developing skills. Licensed psychologists can also address clinical issues.

Know what you need: - Building mental skills for performance → Either can help - Managing clinical issues (anxiety disorders, depression, eating disorders) → Licensed psychologist required

Who Can Help

Licensed Psychologists

Education: Doctoral degree (PhD or PsyD) in psychology

Licensing: State-licensed, requiring supervised clinical hours

Scope: Can diagnose and treat mental health conditions

Sports specialization: Additional training in sport and performance

Titles: Sport Psychologist, Clinical Sport Psychologist

Mental Performance Consultants

Education: Often master's degree in sport psychology or related field

Certification: CMPC (Certified Mental Performance Consultant) or similar

Scope: Performance enhancement and skill building; cannot treat clinical conditions

Approach: Focused on performance optimization

Titles: Mental Performance Consultant, Mental Skills Coach, Performance Consultant

Other Professionals

Clinical psychologists: May not have sport-specific training but address clinical issues

Counselors and therapists: Can address mental health but may lack sport expertise

Coaches with training: Some coaches have mental skills knowledge

Meditation/mindfulness teachers: Can teach foundational practices

The right choice depends on your needs. Performance issues with no clinical component? Mental performance consultant works. Significant anxiety or depression? Need a licensed psychologist.

Finding the Right Fit

Assess Your Needs

Before searching:

Performance focus: What mental skills do you want to develop?

Clinical concerns: Are there mental health issues that need addressing?

Sport specificity: How important is experience in your specific sport?

Access: In-person, virtual, or both?

Sources for Finding Professionals

Sport organizations: Many national governing bodies maintain directories

AASP directory: Association for Applied Sport Psychology's find-a-consultant tool

Team/school resources: Athletic departments often have or can refer

Other athletes: Recommendations from peers who've worked with someone

Insurance networks: If cost is a factor and you have mental health coverage

Questions to Ask

When evaluating potential professionals:

Background: - What's your training and education? - Are you licensed? (If clinical needs exist) - What certifications do you hold? - Do you have experience with [my sport]?

Approach: - How do you typically work with athletes? - What does a typical session look like? - Do you assign "homework" or practice between sessions? - How do you measure progress?

Practical: - What are your fees? - Do you accept insurance? (For licensed psychologists) - How often would we meet? - What's your availability?

The Fit Factor

Beyond credentials, consider:

Rapport: Do you feel comfortable with them?

Communication style: Does their approach match your learning style?

Athletic understanding: Do they "get" the athlete experience?

Accessibility: Can you actually work with them given logistics?

Trust your gut. The relationship matters as much as the credentials.

What to Expect

Initial Sessions

First meeting typically includes:

Information gathering: Your background, sport, goals, challenges

Assessment: Formal or informal evaluation of current mental skills

Goal setting: Identifying priorities for your work together

Explanation: How the process will work

Questions: Opportunity to ask about their approach

You're assessing fit as much as they're assessing you.

Ongoing Work

Regular sessions often involve:

Skill introduction: Learning new mental techniques

Practice and refinement: Working on skills during sessions

Application planning: How to use skills in training and competition

Review: What's working, what isn't, what needs adjustment

Support: Processing challenges, setbacks, breakthroughs

Sessions might be weekly, bi-weekly, or variable based on need and schedule.

Between Sessions

The real work happens between meetings:

Practice assignments: Mental skills to work on during training

Journaling or tracking: Recording experiences and observations

Application: Using techniques in training and competition

Reflection: Noting what's working and what questions arise

Mental training without practice between sessions is like physical training once a week—insufficient.

Timeline Expectations

Mental skill development takes time:

Initial phase (1-3 months): Learning basics, establishing routine

Development phase (3-6 months): Deepening skills, applying to competition

Integration phase (6+ months): Skills becoming natural, refining

Ongoing: Maintenance, addressing new challenges, continued growth

Quick fixes don't exist. Expect sustained effort for sustained change.

Maximizing the Experience

Be Honest

Vulnerability enables progress:

About struggles: Share what's actually challenging

About doubts: Express skepticism or uncertainty

About life context: Sport happens within life; relevant context matters

About the process: If something isn't working, say so

The professional can only help with what you share.

Do the Work

Practice matters:

Complete assignments: Actually do the between-session work

Apply in training: Use techniques during practice, not just in sessions

Track and reflect: Notice what happens when you practice

Be consistent: Regular practice beats occasional intensity

Ask Questions

Understanding enhances application:

Why this technique?: Understand the purpose

How does it work?: Grasp the mechanism

What should I notice?: Know what success looks like

What if it's not working?: Have troubleshooting approaches

Be Patient

Change takes time:

Skill development is gradual: Like physical training, mental training compounds

Not every technique fits: Some approaches will work better than others

Performance fluctuation: Progress isn't linear

Trust the process: Sustained effort yields results

Integrate with Other Training

Mental training works with physical training:

Communicate with coaches: Share what you're working on if appropriate

Apply during training: Use mental skills in practice

Connect approaches: Mental and physical training should complement

Build into routine: Make mental training as habitual as physical training

The Return app can support daily mental practice between sessions.

Cost and Access

Cost Considerations

Mental performance services cost:

Private practice: $100-300+ per session typically

Team/school services: Often covered by athletic program

Insurance: Some licensed psychologists take insurance; coverage varies

Sliding scale: Some professionals offer reduced rates based on need

View it as investment in development, comparable to coaching and equipment.

Access Challenges

Common barriers and solutions:

Cost: Explore team resources, insurance, sliding scale options

Location: Virtual sessions have become standard and effective

Time: Work with professional to find sustainable schedule

Finding someone: Use directories, ask for referrals, be persistent

Self-Directed Alternatives

When professional support isn't accessible:

Apps and programs: Guided mental training like Return

Books: Mental training literature written for athletes

Courses: Online learning for mental skills

Coach support: Some coaches have mental training knowledge

These don't replace professional support but can provide foundation.

When to Seek Help

Performance Indicators

Consider professional support when:

  • Performance significantly below capabilities under pressure
  • Same mental mistakes recurring despite awareness
  • Confidence issues affecting training and competition
  • Focus problems that aren't improving with self-work
  • Major transition (injury, level change, career ending)

Clinical Indicators

Definitely seek licensed professional when:

  • Persistent anxiety affecting daily life
  • Depression symptoms (low mood, loss of interest, sleep issues)
  • Eating or body image concerns
  • Substance use concerns
  • Traumatic experiences affecting function
  • Thoughts of self-harm

These require clinical expertise, not just mental skills coaching.

Proactive Approach

You don't need a crisis:

  • Building mental skills before problems arise
  • Developing resilience for future challenges
  • Optimizing already-good performance
  • Preparing for high-pressure situations ahead

The best time to start is before you desperately need help.

Working Within Teams

Team-Provided Services

Many athletic programs offer mental performance support:

Access: Usually free for athletes

Integration: Professional understands team context

Convenience: Often on-site or easily accessible

Limitation: May have less choice in who you work with

Confidentiality Considerations

Understand boundaries:

What's shared with coaches: Ask directly about policies

Your control: You typically control what gets communicated

Emergency exceptions: Safety concerns override confidentiality

Documentation: Understand what records are kept

Seeking Outside Help

When team services don't fit:

If you want more choice: Different style or approach preferred

If you need specialized help: Team professional may not have expertise you need

If confidentiality concerns exist: Completely independent relationship

If access is limited: Team resources insufficient for your needs

You're not obligated to use only team-provided services.

Common Misconceptions

"It's Only for Struggling Athletes"

Reality: Elite athletes use mental performance support to optimize, not just fix problems.

"It's Like Therapy"

Reality: Mental performance work focuses on skill building, though it can include therapeutic elements.

"It's Quick Fixes"

Reality: Mental skills develop over time like physical skills.

"It's a Sign of Weakness"

Reality: It's a sign of taking performance seriously.

"Results Should Be Immediate"

Reality: Expect gradual improvement over months of consistent work.

Key Takeaways

  1. Know the difference between performance enhancement and clinical work—your needs determine who to work with
  2. Find good fit—credentials matter, but so does rapport and communication style
  3. Expect a process—initial assessment, ongoing skill work, and practice between sessions
  4. Do the work—what happens between sessions matters most
  5. Be honest—the professional can only help with what you share
  6. Be patient—mental skill development takes sustained effort over time
  7. Start proactively—don't wait for crisis to seek support

The Return app complements professional mental training by providing daily meditation practice. Build the foundation that makes professional work more effective.


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